the different ways to say 'thank you' in French
Understanding how to express gratitude in French can enhance your communication skills and deepen your connection to the culture. You may wonder about the various ways to say “thank you” in professional settings or in your daily life. Common phrases such as “merci” and “je vous en prie” reflect a polite acknowledgment, while variations like “de rien” and “il n’y a pas de quoi” keep the tone casual and welcoming.
Exploring these expressions allows you to navigate social interactions more smoothly. Whether you’re thanking someone or declining an offer with “non merci,” knowing these phrases adds warmth to your conversations. French culture places a strong emphasis on courtesy, and mastering these expressions can help you engage more effectively with native speakers.

1. Common Ways to Say 'Thank You' in Daily Life
Expressing gratitude is important when doing shopping in France or eating at restaurant. And there are many phrases you can use. Here are some popular expressions to show your appreciation:
- Merci beaucoup ! – Thank you very much!
- Merci, Monsieur/Madame. – Thank you, Sir/Madam.
- Super, merci ! – Great, thanks!
- C’est top, merci ! – It’s great, thanks !
- Mille mercis ! – A thousand thanks!
- Cela m’a fait super plaisir / cela m’a touché ! – It made me very happy / I was moved by
- Merci du fond du cœur. – Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Using varied expressions makes your gratitude more heartfelt. It can also reflect your personal touch. For instance:
- C’est vraiment gentil de votre part. – It’s truly nice of you.
- Un grand merci pour ce cadeau. – A big thank you for this gift.
Don’t forget playful ways to say thanks. A simple génial adds a friendly tone to your expression. Language can carry emotions, and these expressions can help you connect better with others. Remember, showing gratitude not only lifts the spirits of those around you but can also enhance your own well-being.

2. Choosing Between 'merci de' and 'merci pour'
Prepositions in French are essential words placed after a verb, noun, or adjective in order to indicate a relationship between that word and the noun or pronoun that follows. When thanking someone in French, the choice between merci de and merci pour depends on the context.
2.1 Merci de
You should use merci de followed by an infinitive verb, such as:
- Merci de ne pas fumer. (Please do not smoke.)
- Merci d’être venu. (Thank you for coming.)
- Merci de faire attention à la porte (Please pay attention to the door)
2.2 Merci pour
For thanking someone related to a noun, generally opt for merci pour:
- Merci pour votre aide. (Thank you for your help.)
- Merci pour les gâteaux. (Thank you for the cakes.)
- Merci pour /de ta visite. (Thank you for stopping by).
A helpful rule to remember is that de works best with abstract concepts, while pour suits concrete items. You can also use merci à when directly addressing someone, and merci d’avance when showing gratitude in advance. Often, we can use either ‘de’ or ‘pour’ + noun but remember :
- De + abstract noun
- Pour + concrete noun

3. The verb 'remercier'
Remercier is a verb of the first group which means to thank someone. We will use it more in writing thank when speaking.
- Je te / vous remercie pour votre aide – (I thank you for your help)
- Nous te / vous remercions de tout notre cœur – (We thank you with all our heart)
- Je te / vous remercie par avance – (Thank you in advance)

The phrase “Etre remercié” can also imply being let go from a job. For example, “Il a été remercié après plus de 20 ans à la tête du groupe XYZ” translates to He was let go after more than 20 years leading the XYZ group.
4. Thank someone in formal French
4.1 How to Express Thanks in Writing ?
Furthermore, when you express gratitude in writing, especially in formal situations, the tone can differ significantly from spoken language. Writing formal thank-you notes or emails is important and can influence your relationships. Here are some useful phrases for thanking someone in formal French:
- Je vous suis très reconnaissant(e) pour votre aide.
I am very grateful for your help. - J’aimerais vous exprimer mes plus sincères remerciements.
I would like to express my heartfelt thanks to you. - Veuillez accepter mes plus sincères remerciements.
Please accept my most sincere thanks. - Je voudrais tout d’abord vous remercier grandement.
First of all, I want to thank you very much. - Je tiens à témoigner toute ma reconnaissance.
I wish to express my gratitude.
Using these expressions can make your message sound respectful and appreciative.

4.2 How to write a thank you email after a job interview ?
Finally, after a job interview, sending a thank-you email is a common and appreciated gesture. It displays professionalism and can set you apart from other candidates. Ideally, send this email within 48 hours of your interview. Here are the key points to include in your email:
- Thank the interviewers.
Start by expressing your gratitude for their time and the opportunity.- Je tiens à vous remercier pour votre disponibilité / le temps que vous m’avez accordé hier.
I want to thank you for your time yesterday.
- Je tiens à vous remercier pour votre disponibilité / le temps que vous m’avez accordé hier.
- Reiterate your interest in the position.
Show that you are still interested in the role.- Je vous remercie pour l’attention portée à ma candidature.
Thank you for considering my application.
- Je vous remercie pour l’attention portée à ma candidature.
- Mention specific aspects of the interview.
Referencing parts of your conversation can highlight your engagement.- Je vous remercie de notre entretien le (date) et de la pertinence de nos échanges.
Thank you for our discussion on (date) and the relevance of our discussions.
- Je vous remercie de notre entretien le (date) et de la pertinence de nos échanges.
- End with a positive closing.
Close your email on a positive note to encourage further communication.- Pour faire suite à l’entretien que nous avons eu, je tenais à vous remercier de l’excellent accueil que vous m’avez réservé.
Following up on our conversation, I wanted to thank you for the warm welcome you gave me.
- Pour faire suite à l’entretien que nous avons eu, je tenais à vous remercier de l’excellent accueil que vous m’avez réservé.
A well-crafted thank you email reinforces your interest and professionalism.

To wrap things up, there are countless ways to express gratitude. Remember, you can convey your thanks without saying a single word! A simple look, a heartfelt feeling, or a thoughtful gesture can all communicate your appreciation. I hope you found this article enjoyable. If you have any questions, feel free to use my contact form or send me an email to bonjour@frenchwithagnes.com. Looking forward to hearing from you. Merci !
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